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Remember when Mom would constantly remind you to say "thank you?"  

It's so easy these days to forget to say those two simple words. Frustrated, busy, and stressed, we forget to express thankfulness for both the little and big things our family members, coworkers, loved ones, and strangers do for us throughout the day. Meanwhile, the simple expression brightens the day of the gracious individual who gave us something because they are likely as stressed or frustrated as you.

It's a virtue to have a grateful heart, but let us also remember that the giver of kindness does not always know we are thankful, even when it may seem obvious. Whether it be over a lollipop or life-saving CPR, don't forget to say "thank you."

I think I have already received the best holiday gift for 2008.

I acquired it through a Secret Santa Gift Exchange between wonderful friends.  We each contributed and then selected, switched, fought over, and clutched one anonymous gift. When the hostess determined the game was complete, we tore open our surprise. Of the 12 people in the room, I was lucky enough to have "won" the best gift of the pile.

I overheard the contributor later downplay the item by describing how inexpensive it was. She quietly explained to an envious audience that the costs involved were minimal. I think the total came to about $2.

Why then was my gift so special? Because it was a piece of the giver. She had contributed a small, personally hand-painted picture of three Santas. Lori is humble, yet her art is esteemed by the few who know about it. I nearly cried when I opened my surprise. 

Our talents are not always as tangible as a painting. But they are our individual gift. When we share this gift with a friend or loved one, we give a piece of ourselves. There was a second handmade piece in the exchange, and I expect that the recipient cherishes her's too.

So how do we wrap up a piece of ourselves when our talents are not so easily transferred into a beautiful painting?  Your thoughts, please?